Sunday, December 28, 2014

To be silent isn't being strong!

Silence!!!

Shusssshhhhh!!!

Noru Terchaku!!!

These things you usually hear daily. If you are not, then you are not living in a patriarchal society or Family.

These are the words you hear before Violence. Violence at Home! Home may be of well educated and well uneducated but neither the words change nor the behavior.

Why do you think Sexual Harassment cases are peaking? Sorry, My Bad, Cases are not peaking but the number of such incidents out in open are increasing.

Many women are coming out of the "cocoon of taking up pain". Why should they be silent? Why were they silent all these days?

Why were they silent all these days? I don't know. I guess, it might be due to their physical weakness. It might be. May be the pressure inserted by Family. But Why do you think they are physical weak? They are the ones who do all the chores everyday. They should be strong enough to do some kick-ass stuff!

Physical weakness does not look like a reason. But why do women are victims in most of the sexual harassment cases?

For every 10 men in India, almost 8 women are educated. If every educated men are not resorting to such kind of violence, there should not be any such cases. But there are. Why do the incidents still happen? Education can not be a scale to check Sexual Abuse - violence.

In every street, you see a gang - rowdy gang - a gang of useless male predators. Why aren't such female gang? Even if they exist like Gulabi Gang, People make films and mock at it.

Once one Prabudda told me the reason behind Sexual Abuse. He said, "The main reason behind this violence is not the sexual urge at the moment but the pride of being man leading to a thought that I am stronger than any woman and I can do what I want!" Sounds kind of true.

In Country like India, People say Everything happens for a reason.... And Everyone reasons everything... Finally leading to no concrete answer!

Just in case if you ever had something bad happening to you.. remember ... "To be silent is not being strong!"










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